It has been harder than I had thought to keep up a blog. I have never been much of a diary person, so I thought this would be a good way to have things about my children in a written format. However, you have to
spend the time writing it to be able to have this "diary".
I think my problems is, I've never been much of a story teller, so it's hard for me to write the stories out and make them sound presentable. So I've decided I'm not going to try to make it perfect, I'm just going to start typing it out, sorry English teachers.
Oh NO!! My perfect child has committed a crime.......
Jerin came home from school the other day with a prized possession - a little red dinosaur. I asked were he had got the toy and he said it was from a friend at school. I didn't think to much more of it because this friend was the "sunshine of the week" at school. A little later in the week, while getting the boys in the tub, Jerin reached in the pocket of his school pants and pulled out a few more of these dinosaurs. At that point I knew they were not given to him - he had taken them from the school. I asked him if they came from his class room.
I was a little relieved he did not lie, but now I had to have the talk about taking things that do not belong to you. I went searching for my parent handbook on how to handle this situation.... oh wait - there is NO parent hand book. How do you explain to a 5 year old - actions and consequences. I knew he already knew what he did was wrong, because he
did lie about were the toy came from and he was sneaking them out by putting them in his pocket.
The next day, we left for school early. I took the other two kids to a friends house so I could walk Jerin in and have him talk to the teacher. I think I was WAY more nervous about having to face his teacher than he was. Of course Jerin did not want to tell his teacher what he had done, but I was very proud when he sat down next to her, looked her in the eyes and said sorry he took the toys from her classroom. She was so great to talk to him, she made him understand why it was wrong, but without making him feel like he was a bad kid - I was very very impressed - what a GREAT teacher!! I want her handbook :)